As part of my new role, I was given the gift of mediation training. At the time, I was skeptical about the practice of mediation – “people pay for this?” I often wondered. Though I didn’t realize it at the time, the gift of that mediation training would be one of the most valuable gifts I ever received.

When I was going through my initial mediation training and mentorship, I often thought “seems easy enough – a monkey could do this!”, yet, as soon as I started carrying my own files, I realized the depth and complexity that encompasses the conflicts that people have with one another. It’s not as simple as a conversation – a mediator is a translator that needs to assess and guide the parties, learning each person’s individual conflict language and helping to create shared meaning.

After my first few years in my position and practicing mediation, I received another opportunity for growth – I became a mother. Those first months, though definitely in survival mode, are simple compared to negotiating with toddlers. The mediation skills I had developed in my professional life, were useful in my parenting life as well.

Through welcoming more children earthside, and continuing my mediation education and practice, I have grown more curious, more accepting, more considerate, and know that being a mediator is a commitment to ongoing learning and growth. There will always be a new tool to learn and add to my toolkit.

In 2026, I received the Chartered Mediator designation. This designation allows for me to give back to new and aspiring mediators by conducting Qualified Mediator assessments and more formally providing mentorship. I am also a recognized family mediator and give back to new and aspiring mediators through supervising family mediators as they seek their recognition through the early dispute resolution office.

I continue my education and my practice, and look forward to being a mediation trainer, inspiring the next generation of dispute resolution professionals, while also supporting people going through difficult times in their lives. Going through mediation might not be a delight and the participants might dread it, but with the right guidance, shared meaning can be discovered, relationships can be restored, and a brighter future can be built.